It requires a lot more than a spunky outfit to entice a man to advance on you. Putting out the right vibe will see any man cross through a crowd full of people to meet you.

Every group of friends has someone that always seems to get hit on – she may not even be the best looking in the group. She may not realize, but that girl is utilizing soundless prompts that any man will find difficult to resist.

According to our relationships guru, Diane Bishop, more than 50% of all communication methods are carried out through body language or motions. Accordingly, it only takes a matter of a few seconds to size a person up. A man will determine within 7 seconds whether he will pursue a conversation – make sure you also make the same quick assessment of him.

Strike while the iron is hot. Opportunities in the singles and dating game come and go, often before they even begin – protrude your enticing persona before the window of opportunity closes and some other man eater grabs his attention. Once you send out these distinct signals, he will feel the urge to come over and meet you.

Your clothes are part of how he will judge your motives. It’s hard not to notice how fashionable patterns and stripes are right now. However, subconsciously, people who wear solid colors portray an image of trust and power. The exception to this rule is to avoid wearing 100% black – boring! Once he makes his move, show him you want to look your best for him, straighten up your outfit, make sure he notices, and boost his confidence.

It’s no wonder why a gal loves shoes, a sexy pair of stilettos or heels hanging half on and half off your foot indicates that you are a playful person and are comfortable in the moment. A sexy pair of heels is very appealing.

Show him your shoulders; wear a strapless dress or sleeveless top. Exposed shoulders can only lead to one destination – her knockers. Use your shoulders to guide him around, shrug them forward a little when you lock eyes – by this point you have him where you want him – unable to keep away from you any longer.

Are you the shy type? Position yourself in the centre of a group of people – you will appear as though you are not shy at all. In fact you will come across as popular and interesting, hence increasing your status. And if crowds put you off, use these same principals and adopt them when you join of one the social dating websites. Meeting people online has taken on a whole new meaning these days allowing you to meet singles via live video chat before chancing a real life date.

Are you the kind of a person who loves his city? Well, nothing impresses a girl more than the affection a man has for the place he lives in. You can win her heart over by showing her your city the way you see it, by taking her to all those places that are so special to you. As a city, London offers you many such places, where you can be at ease with your date and have her see the real you. Here are a few of those dating sights.

Everyone likes theater. If nothing else, it will provide enough material for conversation later on whether critical or appreciative. Take her to a West End show and let her take in the atmosphere of the creativity and hard work of all the artists there. Combing this stellar evening with a pre program dinner and you have a sure winner on your hands.

The best way to show your love for London is to take her to the British Museum. It will educate both you and her on the illustrious history of the country and the city, and you will leave with London, and, hopefully her, a little closer to your heart. Impress her with your knowledge of the city, and see how far it will take you in the relationship.

No trip around London will be complete without a visit to Madame Tussaunds. Take her there and show her the amazing skill and talent that goes into replicating the most famous people from all over the world. Also, there’s nothing like being clicked standing next to her favorite actor to make her happy with you.

To give her an idea of just how romantic and quiet London can be, take her to St. James Park. Its beauty is enough to provide a highly romantic atmosphere that the both of you can enjoy. The lush, landscaped greenery and the lovely natural habitat will make the both of you peaceful and will help the both of you to open up to each other.

Take her to the creative center of the city the National Art Gallery. Show your love for the city through the knowledge of all its art and its artists, and see how she appreciates it. There is nothing like art to set off the beauty of a date. It will usually be a success.

For something a little more adventurous, take her to Tower 42 a place not many people bring their dates to. At 183 meters, the tower itself will astound her. The view of London from within it is another matter altogether. A quaint seafood and champagne bar on the forty second floor provides the ideal place for conversation.

Ask her if she liked toys as a kid and you can be sure that the answer will be a definite yes. Then take her to Hamley’s Toy Store, with the mind boggling variety of toys and the energy of happy kids in it. It will definitely bring a smile to her face. Avoid it during Christmas season though, because it will be jam packed.

Show her the very essence of London and take her to Tate Modern. With its quaint ambiance and breath taking view, conversation will simply flow over a cup of hot coffee.

Show her the wilder side of London and take her to the Detroit Bar. Placed right at Covent Gardens, it boasts of a seductive atmosphere full of cocktails and intimate, dark corners. What are you waiting for?

Show her how gentle and accommodating London can be by taking her to Hyde Park. It has something for everyone, catering to every taste. Watch her fall in love with it. This is why you talk about what you can do with all the dating sights around you.