Having problems finding a girlfriend in the offline realm?
Are you usually likely to make a fool of yourself when approaching a girl, and then just retreat from her and keep clear of her until the embarrassment wears off?
Or maybe your problem is that you find a lot of girls who are not what you want in a girlfriend?
If either of these resonates with you then you may need to start looking online and bypass the initial approach, or improve your search to find the type of girlfriend you are trying to find.
Online you can avoid the physical approach and talk from the comfort of your computer at first. This will show a girl what kind of guy you really are before you have a chance to screw it up!
Some Tips to Find a Girlfriend Online
Be Yourself at All Times
When you meet a girl online you can easily chat her up to figure out what she likes and where her interests lie. And best of all, if you see a girl you like on an online dating site then you don’t even have to talk to her, you just have to look at her profile to figure out what she is interested in and where she is going in life.
Just remember though, that whether you find a girl on an dating website or on facebook you have to tell the truth. You have to convey your real likes, beliefs, wants, and needs in life. Why? That’s the only way to find the perfect girlfriend!If a girl start to like you because of the lies, or slight exaggerations, that you are telling her than she is starting to like the guy who you are pretending to be, not the real you. The real you and she may not be as compatible as well as the fake you and her. And you don’t want to find that out later on down the road after she has become your girlfriend.
Plus, the real you will come out eventually, and if she doesn’t like the real you then she will feel betrayed and upset that you were dishonest with her – even if you think it wasn’t that big of a deal.
You will prevent a lot of pain by being honest.
Don’t Pull Out Your Best Photo
It’s a popular suggestion to present someone your best picture before you meet her. You know, the one where people exclaim is gorgeous. That’s the one that reveals you in your best light, and even though it may look like you – it’s only a perfect still moment of you.
Pictures and reality can be quite different. In actual life your face is not unmoving the ‘in person’ test when you finally meet.
Write as You Would Normally Communicate
Until I wrote as a career, I didn’t comprehend how different I sounded on paper as opposed to in real life. Now, I strive to write just like I talk – especially to my friends, family, and acquaintances.
Women relate your intellect and personality to a wide scope of things, like the way you move, the things you do, and the way you speak. So if they think you are a expert because of the way you write, and then they meet you and realize that you are far different than what you writing inspired them to believe – you may be in for a disappointment, because they may find themselves let down.
Now I’m not saying that if you a speech issue they are going to automatically not like you. I’m speaking about the words you use and how you use them. If you describe your latest trip in writing as ‘an amazing journey that gave you enlightenment you have never felt’ but in person explain your latest vacation in words like ‘a trip that let you see the ocean and trees’ then there is a difference in tone and it affects how people view you.
So if a girl knows you to be very detailed with your writing than she will expect you to be descriptive with your words. Make sure they match!