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Dating Etiquette

Sunday, July 17th, 2011

Sometimes, what could otherwise be an enjoyable evening with someone gets ruined because the other person has annoying habits that just go against the rules of proper dating etiquette and social manners.

How would you like to date a woman whose eyes look like a raccoon’s? If you think Avril Lavigne’s trademark eye makeup is sexy, maybe it is, but on someone you’re dating? In broad daylight? I wouldn’t touch a girl wearing that much eye makeup with a ten foot pole.

And while we’re on the subject of annoying things, I thought about some of the annoying habits people make while on a date. The one above is one, and the following make up the rest.

1. Being late. Being late at acting awards is quite cool, but you’re no Angelina Jolie and I’m no Brad Pitt and we’re not vying for any awards. In my book there’s nothing more annoying than your date showing up late. You’re looking to get off to a great start right at the get-go so don’t be late, you’ll be fighting an uphill battle before the date even begins. Show some respect, please.

2. Blabbering. Okay, your date did show up early, but then he/she starts talking nonstop about himself/herself. Could be a sign of nervousness, you say? Could be or you could be talking to a self-absorbed swellhead with an ego the size of Manhattan. If you’re guilty of this, please stop. It’s simply not cool.

3. Checking out someone else. If you’re with me, your eyes should be ON ME at least half of the time. I give you permission to look at the floor or ceiling or your shoes once in a while, and your food, but never, ever, let me catch you checking out that sexy dude at the other table or I’m out of there faster than you could say, “Wait!”

4. Being kiss and tell. And on Facebook and Twitter, no less! I know this is the digital age and some of us just have this compulsion to share everything about what we do on a daily basis. But for the love of God, please refrain from posting blow-by-blow status updates about how your date is going, what he/she looks like, the food you’re feasting on, and whether you are making out inside the car at 11 p.m. Especially if your date happens to be one of your contacts.

5. Having no opinions about anything whatsoever. It’s just so annoying when you’re with someone and you ask her what she thinks of, like, that crazy preacher guy’s prophecy that the world is going to end soon, and she says she doesn’t care and just leave it at that. Then anything else you ask her earns nothing but “maybe.” I’m not saying you have to have a mind of a scientist here, but at least have something interesting to say, dammit!

6. Being deathly serious. This is a date, not a funeral, okay? Just chill out. Recently YourTango quizzed 20,000 men about what turns them on the most and sense of humor scored higher than any particular body parts. For many, laughter is a form of foreplay. It’s just so damn sexy if your date can make you laugh.

7. Texting nonstop. Or looking at your phone during a date. It’s just super rude. Okay, enough said.

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Matt provides Sydney dating services for local men and women who are looking for new relationships.

Dating on a Budget

Sunday, July 10th, 2011

When every penny counts, how can one impress a lady when dating on a budget? How will you woo your girl without breaking the bank?

Sure. In this economic state we should keep our belt tighter. But hey, who says it should spoil our dating fun?

Remember that dating is not just about a coat and tie event or should be all about romance. It also should be a way to enjoy each other’s company and relaxing after a stressful day.

So take these inexpensive dating ideas and have a lovely time together:

Picnic in the Park

Well this might be the most cliché dating move but you have to admit it is fun, romantic and cheap! Just bring a basket with a bottle of wine, good homemade food, throw a blanket on the grass and viola! Besides you have all the beauty of the world before your eyes, so what else can you ask for?

Sounds boring? Bring on a Frisbee, it will surely go a long way on a pretty day.

The Coffee Date

Forget Starbucks for a while. We are trying to get frugal here. Walk along the memory lane, somewhere with familiar surroundings where you’re in your element. The local hometown cafe is always a safe move.

Get Fit

When you go running or cycling, tag your sweetheart along. Working out together is a great way to have fun and to make sure you are both in shape. And speaking of shape, you can always get hold of your feminine side and strut your stuff or give him flashes of that flirtatious killer smile to make the whole experience spicier. It’s a well-known fact that exercise induces those hormones too!

A Night of Pampering

The perfect way to stay in and up all night! No expensive or fancy spa required. You can always start by cooking dinner together. Then prepare a bubble bath for two. Dip in and treat yourselves to a full body massage. Sleep in the next day.

A Stroll to the Flea Market

Shopping may not be your man’s thing but he will appreciate the company if you drag him to the flea market. There are a number of things you might discover you thought never existed. And there is something for everyone at the local markets. Who knows, your hubby might have a knack for weird collectibles you did not know about.

There are still many date ideas that are light on your pocket. No matter what you do as long as you are with someone who can make you laugh, smile and feel sexy, hot and loved all at the same time, everywhere you go will be special. If you both have great chemistry, the date venue is irrelevant.

If you’re still a little unsure about where to take your date, check out his or her facebook page for a few hints. Dating sites also provide some excellent resources for dating tips so go online and start researching some unique dating ideas to make the occasion a memorable one.

Matt provides Sydney dating services for local men and women who are looking for new relationships.

Still Single at 30?

Tuesday, June 7th, 2011

There are a number of contributing factors as to why 30 has become the new 20 in today’s hectic and modern environment. Today’s singles face more challenging economic and social hurdles, all of which delay traditions like marriage and having families.

If you are in your late 20s or early 30s and still single, try not to worry, you’re in the company of a growing group of adult singles who are simply trying to get ahead in life before taking on commitments such as marriage. Compared to a few decades ago, the stigma attached to being single when one has passed the 25- to 30-year-old mark is crumbling away, and you are less likely to be judged simply because you haven’t walked down the aisle yet.

Twenty years ago, the average age that people got married was early 20s, but back then, secure, well paying jobs were in abundance, and it was easier for those with only a high school diploma to be gainfully employed. Add cheap, government-subsidized housing and lower cost of living into the mix and you’ve got young couples with relatively fewer headaches in raising a family.

Today, middle-class jobs with great benefits are harder to come by, and most of them require a college education. Housing costs have also increased, prompting some adults to delay fleeing the parental nest, or–for those who have already left–move back into their parents’ home. These factors are causing singles to proceed cautiously with major life commitments. Today, we simply live in a world of uncertainty.

Some years back, when free dating websites and Facebook were unheard of, singles exposure to the dating world was limited. That means, they were more likely to marry someone from the same community, school or country. Today, Internet dating sites and social networking sites have raised the bar providing modern men and women with an endless pool of singles to potentially meet. Now that the dating landscape has opened up in such a diversified manner, single people are dating more often rather than marrying their hometown sweetheart.

Some people may worry that by marrying late, they miss out on the thrill that young marital bliss offers. Well, not really. The fact that singles in their 30s are more confident and emotionally mature, there is an increased chance that the unions they make have more chances of survival than young marriages. Sociologist Paul Amato who co-wrote the book Alone Together: How Marriage in America Is Changing, says older couples tend to be less inclined to contemplate divorce.

Waiting until one thinks he or she is ready to take the plunge into married life is better, says sociologist Andrew Cherlin, author of the book The Marriage-Go-Round: The State of Marriage and the Family in America Today. In the process, the individual gets to experience life more and know himself really well, becoming his own person before deciding to live with someone else.

Being in your 30s and still single does not give you any reason to feel left out. Now that dating websites and social networking has become very much the norm, one does not need to rely so much on meeting someone through their friends, or as offline social options become less frequent.

Being single has many benefits, so enjoy it while it lasts!

Crazy Things Men do for Women

Saturday, April 16th, 2011

When a guy sees an opportunity to please his lady, no matter how large or small that challenge may be, his male intuition takes over. The animal within remains inactive until such time as any competitor dare venture into enemy territory. The male is programmed to protect as a way to earn the admiration of his sweetheart.

Check Out Five of The Craziest Things Men Do For Women

Personal Taxi

Any guy likes to be seen as serving a purpose and being useful. One easy way to do this is to offer your lady some help by dropping her off to the shops and perhaps picking her up from work – sounds simple enough to earn some brownie points right? But beware, these favours soon turn into regular visits to IKEA and so on. Although, men don’t mind, in fact they will come up with any excuse so they can spend more one on one time with her.

Gate Crashing Her Yoga Class

There’s a general perception that the way to win extra points with a woman is to show a vested interest in her hobbies and passions and to share common interests. Which is true generally speaking. She tells you how much she loves taking her regular yoga classes and we (us men) say just how much we would love to try it. Suddenly, there we are in a pair of shorts attempting to manoeuvre our body in all sorts of bizarre ways.

Posting An Online Dating Sites Photo

Under any other situation you would not dream of posting a public photograph of yourself and pouring your heart out for the world to see not to mention the possibility of your friends or family getting wind of it. But when it comes to love, men will do the craziest things. The prospect of finding love outweighs the fear of your mates finding your online dating websites profile.

Letting Women Get Us Into Punch Ups

The history of men fighting one another stems back to the beginning of mankind. The chest-thumping between male rivals continues to this very day. Coming off as a wimp in the presence of your woman must be avoided at any cost regardless of the imminent beating that awaits you. When you’re at the movies it’s the man who will need to take the lead to silence the group of noisy teenagers sitting right in front of you telling them to “shout their mouths.” Even though you know you’ll most likely get jumped in the car park afterwards it’s a risk you’re willing to take to impress your girl.

Hanging Out With Her Ex boyfrien

Most guys have dated a woman that, for what ever reason, manages to remain friends with her ex boyfriend. She tells you there’s nothing to be worried about: “I was chatting to Jack this morning, blah blah blah.” Something in the sound of her tone of voice suggests that “this great guy Jack” once stoked the same mantelpiece as you. Do you give Jack the cold shoulder and pretend you’re glad to see his smug face? The smart thing to do is to treat Jack like he’s a friend. A man that does not act in a jealousy manner is a rare find, but if she gives a clear reason to break your trust – let the chest-thumping begin!

Matt provides Sydney dating services for local men and women who are looking for new relationships.

Sex and Dating

Thursday, April 7th, 2011

Sex is something that’s always a difficult topic when dating. There’s no way around it, sex and dating are inextricably interconnected. Sex is a subject that is widely open for discussion regardless of religious belief or cultural values. Modern men and women often use sex as a test of compatibility because good sex is a sign of good chemistry and an important part of any healthy relationship.

Similar to the way in which dating sites endeavour to match their members based on similarities, you should also attempt to locate the ideal partner when it comes to sex. Many of us have certain sexual preferences so it helps to be able to share your preferences with like-minded people. If you are dating someone who has a much bigger sex drive than you, or vice versa, this will have substantial negative consequences for any long-term relationship.

The magnitude of being in a sexually compatible relationship should not be underestimated. A special connection can be lost easily if the right sexual chemistry is not established and maintained. This does not always have to represent the act of having sex per se, rather any kind of romance or close intimacy. Whether sex is important to you or not, your partner must feel the same way.

During the initial stages of dating someone, how often does sex occur? If a man is attracted to a woman he will certainly want to sleep with her. However, if you are genuinely hoping to establish a lasting bond it’s imperative you don’t have sex early on in the relationship. Let the desire and anticipation grow over time to allow your true feelings and emotions reach a heightened state. Unless your motives are purely based on a physical connection, never allow sex to complicate a relationship in its early stages.

In this day and age, there are plenty of online resources freely available catering for both casual relationships and serious relationships. Various online dating singles websites provide platforms for men and women to find partners who share the same level of sexual requirement. So if you have not yet explored online options, there is a dating service in cyberspace that caters to just about any need or desire whether it be casual or long term – it’s worth a look.

The very first time a couple has sex can be truly wonderful when there’s tremendous expectation and build up but will similarly turn out to be a complete catastrophe as a result of that same expectation and build up. Usually it’s the last mentioned. It requires time and energy to become familiar with the other person during sex and so reduce your anticipations and don’t trust the standard of sex based on the first encounter. Elements will vary and become much better in time. Develop a certain amount of trust as well as reciprocal respect, the first time with each other might not be what you imagined, even so it can still be warm and rewarding all the same.

Matt provides Sydney dating services for local men and women who are looking for new relationships.

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